1. Groom Yourself

I hate to say this, but most guys just don't get even the basics!
Women don't like guys with body odour, bad breath and nose hairs.

Grooming is important to women. Be clean and smell good. This will help your self confidence too.

2. Learn to Dress Well

Women love fashion, speak their language. It's easier than you think, and doesn't cost much if you plan a bit.

A fashionable shirt, a nice pair of jeans, and cool shoes is a great way to begin. This has a BIG impact on your first impression and will make your approach much easier.

3. Warm Up

All good performers warm up first. This will help you relax and focussed. Every guy who takes our workshop has to do this before field practice.

Ask simple questions to people you see, like "what's the time?" and "Is there a restaurant nearby?" This gets you in the mood of talking with people you don't know before you talk to any women.

4. Smile

This is commonsense, but when guys get nervous this is one of the first things they forget. People like people who smile. Women like guys who are fun. Simple.

5. Sloooooow down

It's hard enough when there is no pressure, but when guys get nervous they move like they have ants in their pants.

Quick, jerky movements are not attractive. It telegraphs nervousness.

Think of how James Bond moves, or Brad Pitt, or think of a snail, keep reminding yourself to sloooooow doooowwwnn.

6. Hold Eye Contact

A key sign of confidence is to not look away when a woman looks at you. If you see a woman look at you... RELAX, SMILE, and SLOW DOWN (see how all this works together)

Note, there is a huge difference between eye contact and staring.

7. Be Playful

Most guys are boring, stiff, and logical. If you are playful, you have an INSTANT advantage. Women like a man who is playful.

Banter is one of the easiest and most effective ways I know for men to be playful, and it is one of the most powerful attraction triggers I know.

8. Touch People

Touch people when you interact with them.

It communicates you are a social guy, you are comfortable with them and are inviting them into your world.

Make a habit of touching everyone you meet, like you would touch friends in your inner circle. Touch early, touch often.

9. Talk to Everyone

A common mistake guys make is to only talk to the cute girl they are hitting on. Then they wonder why she was not so responsive.

Talk to her friends. Talk to men and women. Be the center of attention. Not only are most people bored, when you lead the conversation that makes you more attractive.

10. Learn to tell Stories

Every man has some cool stories to tell. Maybe you don't think your stories are good because they're nothing new for you. But people always find personal anecdotes interesting.